Showing posts with label birth story. Show all posts
Showing posts with label birth story. Show all posts

Friday, September 18, 2009

Charlie the Well Baby

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Thursday morning at midnight Charlie was released to come room in with me. His NICU nurse had to come every hour to check on him, but we still had a great night. For the most part, he slept in two hour increments and nursed in between. I'm sure he was happy to nurse on demand after his strict NICU 3 hour schedule. See his smile?!

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The next morning Charlie was circumcised, took his hearing screening (which he passed!) and was examined by his pediatrician. Then he was released to come home! Here are pictures of him in his coming home outfit!

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And Charlie in his car seat... he warmed up to it. :-)

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Thursday, September 17, 2009

Adventures in the NICU

better known as Charlie's birth story continued...

After Charlie was born, his first few hours were fairly uneventful. He scored an 8 and a 9 on his APGAR tests, nursed almost right away, and we marveled that he looked like a "tiny" (a relative term, for sure) version of Jack. After I ate lunch in recovery and he got a bath and his first outfit on, we set off for the post-partum side of the hospital. I had been holding Charlie, so I set him down in the bassinet and off we went.

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When we got to the room Mike went to get Charlie out of the bassinet. I thank God for giving him the urge to pick Charlie up at that moment- the head NICU nurse told us it saved his life. Mike said something about him being wet, and my mom realized he was bleeding. My nurse was in the room and figured it was his umbilical cord. She undressed him, saw it was, and ran to get a new clamp and some new clothes. She was gone about 3 minutes.

In that time, the clamp somehow came totally off, and a quarter to a third (I heard both numbers used) of Charlie's blood volume pooled around him in the bassinet. When she got back she and another nurse immediately rushed him to the nursery and then to the NICU, realizing the extent of his blood loss and it's seriousness.

I was sitting on the bed that entire time with a headache, so I couldn't really see what was going on. I'll never ever forget looking at Charlie's gray face as his bassinet was wheeled out of the room.

My nurse was on a temporary assignment to well moms and babies- she is usually a NICU nurse. I again thank God for placing her with my baby at the time he needed her. She was awesome, and stayed with Charlie until her shift ended that night. She was also his NICU day nurse every day he was there.

At first, we were told that he just needed to be in the NICU until they could re-clamp his cord. Then, someone came and said that he'd need a blood transfusion. I think that's when I lost it, and I got really, really scared. All of the sudden my baby, who had been perfectly healthy until a moment ago, was very sick.

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Charlie ended up needing two umbilical cord catheters, one in a vein to give IV fluids, etc. and on in an artery to take his blood pressure and draw blood. He was given two blood transfusions, two different antibiotics, and constant saline with Heparin. He also got IV nutrition for two days.

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Through it all, his oxygen saturation, blood pressure, and breathing remained good. His heart rate got a little high until his first transfusion, but quickly recovered. I was allowed to hold and nurse him every 3 hours for up to an hour at a time, beginning the evening he was born. He nursed like a champ from the get-go.

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On Tuesday evening he finished his second transfusion and the umbilical line in his artery was taken out. On Wednesday he got his last IV fluids, a final dose of antibiotics, and late that night his other umbilical line was pulled. At midnight he was released to "room in" with me, even though by that point I was a hospitality guest at the hospital, having been released a few hours earlier.

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Here he is after all his tubes and wires had been removed, then all wrapped up waiting to leave the NICU.

Coming tomorrow... Charlie's 12 hours as a well baby hospital patient. :-)

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Charlie's Birth

Mostly for my own memory, I want to record Charlie's birth story. Enjoy reading, unless you're squeamish, in which case, skip down to the bottom and enjoy just the pictures!

At my 38 week appointment my doctor and I decided to induce at 39 weeks, due mainly to my high blood pressure. After being induced with Jack, I had originally hoped to avoid that route this time, but intense contractions every evening for three weeks leading up to his birth and the risks of my high BP gave me peace about the situation.

Mike and I got to the hospital Monday morning at 6 am, changed into my gown, and got my IV in. My doctor came by to check me and break my water at 7. I was dilated to 4 cm and 90% effaced. She told me that if I wanted an epidural (I did!)  not to wait too long, because labor could go quickly. I didn't really believe her.

The pitocin started to do it's thing, and after two painful contractions I asked to get in line for an epidural, since she said not to wait. I felt silly asking for it for minor pain, but by the time anesthesia got to the room about 15 minutes later, I was having to breathe through almost constant contractions. They sat me up and got to work. First needle in, but the catheter drew blood, so they had to start over. Second needle in, and the doctor kept hitting a nerve. He tried for over 30 minutes, and finally decided it just wasn't working for him. They called for a second anesthesiologist who came, started a third needle, and was successful in placing the spinal catheter, an hour after the ordeal began. Oh, wow. In about 10 minutes I was numb from the waist down, and much happier. :-) It was 9:30 am and my mom was dropped off by Allison.

They placed my catheter (you know, the other one) and checked me. I was fully  effaced and dilated to a 9, and they told Mike he wasn't allowed to leave and get breakfast! They started bringing in all the baby paraphernalia and transforming the room from labor to delivery. My doctor walked in at 10:05, robed up, and asked if I was ready to push. I honestly answered that I had no idea, since I couldn't feel ANYTHING! But at 10:12 or so I started pushing, pushed through three contractions, and at 10:19 Charles Jeffery Friedrich was born! As simple as that! He weighed 8 lbs 3 oz and was 20 inches long, with beautiful long blond hair. He looked just like a mini version of his big brother when he was born.

And now for the pictures...

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Brand new

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All cleaned up

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With Mama and Daddy

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First Bath

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All Dressed Up

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With Gigi

Part II of Charlie's birth story to follow shortly...

And just for fun, a comparison of Jack (left) and Charlie's (right) first birthdays:

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